There are as many kinds of relationships as there are people. Some of the more well known include: Polyamory, Open, BDSM, Swinging, or Monogamish. All Ethical non-monogamy is based on the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved. If you are as confused as I was with love triangles in movies, "Why do you have to pick?! They are both gorgeous and madly in love with you!!" -Me as a kid, then Ethical non-monogamy might be something to consider.

People are complex and have differing needs. You might have needs that current partners can't or won't be able to meet. Different levels of sexual desire is the obvious one but, it can be anything, from shared interests, specific kink, amount of available time, exploration, to a desire for a person of another gender.

Sometimes you meet someone that you can't imagine not being with. Someone that might disrupt or destroy a monogamous relationship but would be a meaningful additional partner in an non-monogamous lifestyle. You might be surprised at how much room there is in your heart for love.

I've had friends speculate about all the wild orgies and escapades we must be getting up to, and while some of that is true, most of the time we are talking. Talking about feelings, talking about needs, talking about boundaries, talking about fears. You need strong communication skills for any relationship, non-monogamy adds another layer of complexity and while it can be challenging it's also very rewarding.

We can help the development of the skills needed to maintain multiple relationships in whatever form they take.

Whether you are a newbie or a seasoned veteran, we all have road blocks and growing to do.

One partner or a hundred, relationships are between two people.

Deepen bonds, get to the core of issues and discover each other anew like you had just been introduced.

Build deeper connection, communicate with clarity, and rediscover intimacy.

Relationships evolve, and so do our needs for closeness, touch, and communication. Whether you're feeling out of sync, navigating tension, or simply wanting to feel more connected, intimacy coaching offers a judgment-free collaborative space to explore your relationship with openness and curiosity.

This work is open to all couples—queer, straight, monogamous, polyamorous, neurodivergent, neurotypical, or somewhere in between. Every relationship has its own language and rhythm, and coaching helps you uncover what that is without imposing a “correct” way to do intimacy. We focus on what feels true, respectful, and sustainable for both of you.

In our sessions, we’ll explore the patterns that are showing up between you and get curious about what each partner needs to feel safe, seen, and understood. Whether you’re struggling to communicate, experiencing sensory mismatches, feeling emotionally distant, or wanting to explore sensual or embodied touch in a new way, we’ll move at a pace that respects your comfort and your goals. Many couples find that just having a dedicated space to talk about intimacy without judgment opens up understanding and renewed connection.

In the current political climate, you need someone that understands the reality of being Queer. The challenges that we face are as unique as we are, friends, family, work, relationships, community. You don't see the world through a hetero-normative lens and neither do we.

Explore gender identity and expression, sexuality, intimacy and more. We provide a safe and understanding place to discover yourself without judgement.

Intimacy can look and feel different for everyone. For neurodivergent adults, traditional ideas about connection don’t always fit. Whether you're exploring physical closeness, emotional safety, or simply trying to feel more in tune to your sensuality, intimacy coaching creates space to do that in a way that is individualized for your needs.

Our approach is neuroaffirming and holistic. That means we honor your sensory needs, your communication style, and your nervous system responses, without putting on your mask or pushing through anxiety. Coaching sessions are collaborative and adapted to your pace. Together, we’ll build practical tools for expressing needs, navigating boundaries, and feeling more confident in moments of closeness.

A big part of this work can involve embodied touch, which includes intentional practices that help you notice how your body responds to contact, pressure, and sensation. This could look like guided self-touch, exploring calming textures, or learning how to regulate through physical connection (with yourself or a partner). Embodied touch creates self-awareness, about intimacy needs and provides practice to help overcome anxiety surrounding intimacy.

You deserve to feel safe and confident in your body, your relationships, and develop your own version of intimacy.